Where do regrets come from? Sometimes they come from our inability to break free from old programming. When we are stuck in a limited belief (a belief we don’t even know exists, we can create a habit of a regretful life! )
Regret it is the most negative of all our emotions and becomes toxic when we live a life of, “I wish I did....”. “I wish I had done...” “If only...”
So many people hide behind their hearts, never truly living, simply because of the fear of loving deeply, caring sincerely, taking the necessary action or ‘simply’ leaping into the unknown world of uncertainty. (Which encompasses all of life...)
No life is safe from sorrow and no life well lived ever needs to be safe from love for those whose lives have some messiness in it, are the brave individuals who oftentimes have no regrets.
The only way to really grow is to take risks. Take a chance. Feel our feelings and most importantly never, ever fear the rawness of loving deeply—anyone or any living being. Even little succulents can show us how to love...
So when that Clock is about to strike 12 and that noon train is approaching around the bend; the tracks are laden with golden bricks pointing in a Direction and your life is asking you: Decide, Decide, Decide...who are you going to listen to? Your heart or your mind? (What will you choose? Regret or Risk?
(only time will tell...)